Experience #49
Food: Chocolate tasting and wine pairing

I can't remember who suggested this wonderful experience; but whoever it is WOW! It was absolutely one for the books. Thanks!

Simon and I have rented a nice breach house in Deep Bay for the Christmas holidays and our foodie friends (Celeste, Brian, Shirley and Tony) have joined us for the first three days. I thought they would be willing to help me with this one.

I could not find a somalier to organise this for me so I searched the web and found wine suggestions to pair with a variety of chocolates. My friends were each asked to bring one of the bottles and Simon and I went hunting for good chocolate. Cooks Culture on Blanshard is THE place to go. They have chocolate bars from all over the world; very nice selection. To round our tasting, I stopped at the Chocolaterie on Fort for a few flavoured chocolates. Shirley also brought some of her home made truffles.

With our spreadsheets in hand we started... What to do:
Take a small nibble of the chocolate and savour it's texture and discover the flavours as they build on your tongue. Sip a bit of wine and mix the two in your mouth. Good? No?

Our findings:

Riesling with it's fruitiness is good with lighter chocolates such as white, and fruit cremes. Muscadet is bold and pairs better with spicy chocolates such as Ginger, wassabi, peppercorn. Zinfandel was OK with medium dark chocolates, cinnamon spice. Cab-Sauvignon was pretty much a bust, OK with milk chocolate but did not add and new tastes. Madeira and Port was great with the darker chocolates and the spiced chocolates as well. The home made truffles with alcohol fillings did not match up with the wines.

As for the chocolates, we all had our own favourites. The new flavours tried were licorice, saffron and pistachio, olive and lemon, chili spiced, Thai lemongrass, cinnamon, wassabi cashew, ginger, and salt.

Experience #48

Theme adventure planning

Our good friend Garth is turning 50 in 2014. He has a dream of doing a motorbike tour somewhere in the world. Options abound: South America, Eastern Europe, Alaska and Northern territories, Southern States...Sounds very exciting-but first one needs to know how to ride a bike.
Enter new experience! It all starts with a knowledge test.

Most of you may remember the written test for your drivers license. It's about the same; it incorporates basic road skills knowledge with some questions relating to riding a motorcycle. It is a good exercise to do as it reminds us how to look at driving/riding and sharing the road. I already ride a scooter and have increased my skills riding by reading the "manual". Maybe one day I'll be a motorcycle mama...

Next step, next year, we will be to take a course on riding defensively and passing a learners, then a full license. I'm a bit nervous about motorbikes, but I'm confident the instructors will teach us the skills. I will keep my options open as to whether I'll be a rider or a passenger; either way I think it wise to know how to ride.
 
Simon has started working on the Gant chart for the future trip. What we need to do, when; the visas, medical considerations, insurance for travellers, potential locales for the road trip. This planning will keep our brains occupied for a long time.

Experience #47

Theme: Parrot Refuge

Margot suggested this event as I am a "bird person". Many of you know, We adopted Tiki, the lovebird, about 4 years ago. Simon and I recently adopted Cheeko, the parotlet. Both birds are doing well and getting used to one another. I love the human and bird relationship. They are so comical, interested in all you do, and get into such mischief to make everyday interesting.

I have often meant to stop at the Coombs Parrot Refuge, but timing has always been an issue. This past week-end, we were at Sproat Lake doing our usual Thanksgiving week-end with friends and thought-why not go and visit? The World Parrot Refuge is an educational facility that provides a “Home for Life” for previously owned pet parrots, and is operated by the “For the Love Of Parrots Refuge Society”.

The Refuge has over 800 parrots, a dedicated team of staff and volunteers, and 23,000 square feet of heated indoor free-flight aviaries. The Refuge opened to the public for educational purposes in June  2005. Many of the birds housed at the refuge come from homes where they could not be cared for, some were neglected, or even abused. When you enter the large aviaries, the sound is unbelievable. The ear plugs they provide don't last long as some of the parrots think their great toys and slip them out of your ears.



Simon and I have owned a few birds in our lives but all where small. The large macaws, cockatoos and other parrots at the refuge a huge. It's a bit intimidating to have them land on you. They are inquisitive and want some loving- so be prepared! I met a lovely pink cockatoo who had a plucking issue. He wanted some preening and was so affectionate it was hard to leave him. There was a green macaw who also came by and was very clearly in need/want of some preening. I was in heaven!


Check them out at their website, or drop by. You'll see many beautiful birds; plan to stay at least an hour.

Experience #45

Theme: tough chicks-Roller derby!

How to play: Two teams of five players each are on the starting line. The jammers for each team are in the back, and start after the rest of her team skates off. The whole goal is for the jammer to lap everyone on this oval track and begin scoring points. For every opponent a jammer passes, she scores a point. All the while, the other four players, called blockers, are trying to knock their opponents down to make it harder for the opposing jammer and easier for their own jammer to score. At the starting line, the blocker with the striped helmet is the pivot. This position guides the speed of her blockers, paying attention to where her and the other team's jammer is. The pivot might signal for her team to skate faster, so it is harder for the other team's jammer to catch up to the pack and thus score before the clock runs out. The pivot might signal for her team to slow down if she sees her own jammer is trying to catch up to the pack. Jammers wear the star helmet. As the whistle blows to start play, the jammers wait until the rest of the pack gets 20 feet ahead. Then the jammers race off, trying to be the first to get through. The jammer who does get through the pack first is the lead jammer. Only the lead jammer can call off the jam before the clocks ends. The advantage to being the lead jammer is obvious: you can call off play if you are tired, and calling off the jam prevents the other team from scoring. Of course, the lead jammer can strategically let the clock tick, skating around and racking up more points before the three minutes allotted for each jam elapses.

So now you know the basics of roller derby. The costumes are wild the player's names tongue and cheek, and the crowd a bit rowdy. All good fun! The Eves of Destruction event featured the junior teams: the Rotten Apples vs the Candy Crushers. They were fearless. The main event saw the Belles of the Brawl vs the Margarita Villains. They were tattooed mamas that were obviously fit and ready to rumble. Joining us at this event were Chris, Shawn and Chantelle.

 

Experience #46

Theme: Food-Food fight!

My friend Jack, who's 10, suggested this event. I thought it might be freeing of the constraints of proper manners at the dinner table. My parent, God love them, were neat freaks. (This is why I'm the way I am!) An example of this is that they often took out the little vacuum to pick up crumbs at the breakfast table, while the family was still eating! So flinging mashed potatoes to one of my brothers was definitely out of the question.
Alison suggested we use her yard. She and her family have recently moved into this beautiful home in Sooke. She invited her neighbours as a form of meet and greet. Well, It was fabulous. All came and participated, no injuries or upsets occurred. We started off with the egg throw; all was good until Don hit Alison in the face with the raw egg. Peas, spaghetti, pudding, and Jello started to fly. Goop was applied to faces, inserted into shirts; people slipped and ran around squealing and having a great time. The grand finally was the pie throw. I sat on a chair and got pies tossed at me, mmmmmm whip cream...

Don had set up a hose from his kitchen sink so we had warm water to hose each other to do a preliminary clean before going in for our shower. If you are planning a party and have plastic tarps and a grassy spot-try a food fight. It is quick and easy to prep and soooo much fun!

 

Experience #44

Theme: earth, water: the Great Lake Walk

I initially thought of doing the Tahsis great walk but due to conflicting times with other events chose to do the Cowichan lake walk instead. It is a 56km walk around the Cowichan lake. It started in 2001 by a group of locals (or loco's) who wanted to:

• Promote the Cowichan Lake area to improve tourism, commerce and the economic and civic welfare of the area.
• Promote all legally registered charities by encouraging Great Lake Walk participants to raise pledges and collect funds for the charities and causes of their choice.

Since then, they have had an average of 300-400 individuals participating in the event yearly. Simon and I chose to raise funds for the Hospice Society for their fine work and for my Mom, who passed away in their care 3 years ago. Friends, Sabrina and Lisa, were brave/foolish and committed to join us on this experience. I also saw a choir member, Ian, who was doing this event for the second time.

We got up at 2am and picked the girls up and drove up to Youbou where the event would start at 5am sharp. Like any other race, you could pick out the professional athletes and the novices. We sang Oh Canada and started of on our adventure. The lights of the people on the road made for an odd shaped Christmas tree. The going was good; the air cool; the skies clear. The time flew by, at first. We averaged about 5.3 km/hour. I think we slowed down a bit by the last 15 km, but all in all we made good time. Up until 30 km, we felt great! By then our muscles were tired and we could feel the aches in our gluts and hamstrings. Our feet began to feel overly warm, and we knew we'd have a few blisters by the end of the day. At about 40 km we encountered "the hill". It was not steep but it went on for more than 2 km and 100 m in elevation gain.

Down the other side and onto asphalt for the last 12 km. This was when we hit "the wall". The sun, the hard terrain and the fact we had been walking for about 9 hours by that time, our bodies were done. Simon tried to cheer me on at the 50 km rest stop by stating that we were in our last HOUR of walking. LAST HOUR!?! I sorta lost it and said let's stay quite for a while as I can't even imagine continuing for another hour-or words to that effect. Simon, the good man that he is, took charge and walked ahead of me quietly and kept me going. We arrived at the finish line #148/149 at 10:47 hours. We were spent! We drank more fluids and ate without appetite, and waited for our friends. Sabrina and Lisa were #163/164. They made it! Ian was #76! Great going Ian!

Sabrina's family were all there to cheer her and invited us to go out but Simon, Lisa and I were just too tired. We all went home to a hot bath and bed. Sabrina went out and had some wine and dinner and then a free ride in an ambulance! She became dehydrated and "sorta passed out"! She recounted this as part of the adventure, laughing and commenting on the good looking ambulance attendant! What amazing spirit!

They all made me vow NEVER TO DO THIS AGAIN! and I agree. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt!

Experience #43

Theme: social- Fundraiser

In a moment of great affection and appreciation for Jack, my choir director, I vowed to organise a fund raising event for Choir Kids, an after school music education program. Jack was most gracious in allowing me to sing a whole song solo at our year end concerts. It was a very special thing he did for me. He spent time during practise with me and encouraged me to find my voice.

So I felt I should give back. Jack organised Choir Kids in 2006 with five members of the Arbutus singers choir. The idea was to provide kids, in communities that might not offer after school programs, a chance to sing in a choir-just for fun. It received charitable status in 2008. At our year end concerts the kids come and perform with us. To see their enthusiasm, and the pride in their parents eyes is heart warming.

I thought-lets make a carnival style afternoon at a park. Beckwith is a great venue for families. There is a water park and lots of room to run and play. I booked a part of the fields for my event. I chose bocce for the adults, and pit spitting and carnival games for the kids. I also put forth the idea for a bake sale. Creating the games was fun. Did you know: that watermelon's don't have pits anymore? and that there is a helium shortage? For my pit spitting I had to use Spitz, and the balloons were air filled.
But the big challenge for me was to promote it. I am not that person who can be forceful-even for a good cause. I am very uncomfortable with asking for help. Lucky for me, I know Shirley, who has done this sort of thing before-a lot! I should have called on her long before I did. But she helped me so much with the little time we had left. She got Tim Horton's to lend us an awning, and provide us with coffee and Tim Bits. Thrifties offered us water and juice boxes. She also got a few friends to come out to help. Wow! She is amazing!

The weather could not have been better, and I had received lots of baked goodies from friends, clients, and choir members. My friends were there to hang-out and help. All that was missing were they families. A few folks came by, plaid some games, or bought our baked goods. They were most generous with their support. But I should have advertised much more than I did. The paper adds, and choir invites and community recreation parks where I posted my event weren't enough to get people out.

I learnt a lot doing this event. I was amazed and so touched by all the folks who so willingly came to help and support me. I get emotional just thinking about their kind gestures, their love. I will be forever in their dept.

Experience #41

Theme: Air: Sleeping in the spheres

Thanks Celeste for suggesting this experience. The Free Spirit spheres are located in Qualicum Beach area. Tom Chudleigh built them of local woods using sailboat technologies. His concept was to harness the healing qualities of the old growth forest and create a habitat that is in harmony with it's surroundings without causing harm to it. The spheres are hung from a series of cables and no nails go into their support trees. You enter the floating orbs by a spiral stair case which wraps around a tree. The Erin sphere has a double bed, a dinette, kitchenette, and a loft single bed. The morning light streams into the round windows, the breeze gently rocks the orb. It is truly a relaxing and healing experience.
Our host Tom showed us the facilities: the 3 orbs, the compost toilet and shared shower facility. All very clean and well maintained. His partner, Rosey, had prepared a basket of goodies and champagne for us to enjoy. Their story is worth noting. Rosey came to stay, in 2009, for 2 months to recover from an illness. They fell in love and she ended up staying. Very romantic...
We arrived Friday night and stayed Saturday. The feeling of being cradled in this suspended tree house was magical. The suspension rocked away the stresses of the last few weeks. It was a week-end just for the two of us. Let's just say that the orb got 'a rockin'...

Experience #42

Theme: Earth: Spelunking

Horn Lake caves offers 3, 4, and 5 hour tours. Our guide was a young man named Myles. He explained that the caves were created many millions of years ago through the erosion process of glaciation. Limestone dissolves under the action of water charged with carbonic acid. The dissolution process produces a distinctive landforms known as karst, characterised by sinkholes, and underground drainage. Limestone caves are often adorned with calcium carbonate formations produced through slow precipitation. These include flowstones, stalactites, stalagmites, helictites, soda straws and columns. These secondary mineral deposits in caves are called speleothems.
Our tour took us through narrow tunnels where we had to crawl on our hands and knees and sometimes on our bellies. We down climbed into the deeper caves where we saw some of the largest flowstones and stalactites. One of these resembled the Buddha sitting by the water, others resembled animals such as elephants, crocodiles and wolves. It was a very exciting day of discovery. We both ended up very dirty-great fun!

Experience #38
Theme: Water: Surfing the wave in Tofino

Our nephew, Augustin, arrived just in time to join us on our long week-end in Tofino. The weather was spectacular! We did some whale watching on our first day, but-been there-done that so it can't be marked as a "new experience" for us. We were booked with Endless Ride, out of Ucluelet, for both the surfing and the SUP. Jay was great. He got us geared up and into the surf safely. He showed us how to read the beach and surf. Lesson # 1: stay away from the yahoo's (AKA the idiots who don't know what they're doing) and the rip tides. Augustin is in track and field and young (18) so he did very well. Simon and I were a bit more slow getting up onto the board, but we all had a blast! The waves were great and for most of the morning we had lots of space to practise.

Experience #39
Theme: Water: SUP-stand-up paddle board
Early start to the day. We met Kat at the boat launch at 7am. The skies were clear, but the water was a bit choppy. The SUP board is broader and thicker than a surf board. Balance is only a bit easier on this board. I could feel all my stabilising muscles working hard to keep me balanced. We set off along the inlet and across to a fish hatchery. Coming back the winds picked up and we had to work hard to paddle our way to the boat launch. The next day we all commented on how stiff we were-it's a great core work-out!





Experience #40
Theme: Air: zip-line
This was an easy one. On the way back from Tofino, we stopped at the Wild at Play park in Nanaimo and did their zip-line course. The guides set you up and you zip across the Nanaimo river canyon. It was great fun but a bit short.

Experience #37

Theme: exotic foods

Question: if you are invited to a BBQ, where you know the host and no-one else, what can you bring as an appy/ice-breaker?
Answer: bugs of course!

I think I gave myself this challenge. As the saying goes, we are always harder on ourselves. I decided to try eating some of those creepy crawlies. I let Simon choose them. They were purchased at the bug zoo, for those wishing to partake. He chose crickets and dried larvae-yum...

Witnesses are always important, so when Mandy invited us to her BBQ, I thought-perfect! Mandy is my inspiration for the 50 new things. She ventured into this experience last year, and is repeating it this year, as well. So I thought she might appreciate the opportunity herself.

We've all swallowed mosquitoes accidentally while being outdoors-but that doesn't count. The aim is to bite and chew the bugs. The mental challenge is to put that icky little critter in your mouth; after that just chew. I was amazed at how many ladies joined me for the "degustation" (french for tasting). What a brave/crazy bunch! After all the psyching-up it was just a crunchy little morsel. The drying process took away any possible flavors. I may try the real, juicy, thing, one day...

For the record, Simon also ate the bugs. Here is Paula, Mandy and I with our larvae... mmm protein....

Experience #35

Water theme: white water rafting

Simon and I booked this adventure a while back. We invited friends to come along. Too many wanted to join us-so sorry for those that didn't make the final cut. No reason, other than: first come first serve.

Mandy got us a great deal at Painters Lodge in Campbell River. The rooms overlooked the water and the docks. We arrived on Friday night as Saturday would start early. Our dinner in the pub was entertaining with the gang getting acquainted and our waitress being a bit (a lot) ditsy...

Morning arrived quickly. We met at 7:30 at the Destiny Adventures shop for wetsuit fitting, and a long bus ride up to Wass and the Nimpkish river. Jaime, our guide, decided that the water level was not right for the upper Nimpkish, so we joined the two other groups on the lower river. It would mean lower rated rapids but the chance to use kayaks.

The bus was an old school bus, the ride bumpy and dusty. We all changed into our wetsuits while on the road. At the landing site we all helped set up and got the "talk". I admit it made me nervous. eg. "if you fall out and get sucked under the raft, push up against the raft bottom and you will get pushed out to one side...." Yikes! No backing out now. We were given some quick paddling instructions and off we went. It would be 21 km on the lower river with class 3 rapids.

The first little rapids gave us the feel for our zodiac. It was very flexible, one could feel every wave and rock under its ribbed bottom. There were slots for our feet to keep us braced when we hit rougher waters. Simon went into the kayak first. He took the first white water with style, but the second set of rapids spit him out. Our boat went to aid him and accidentally squished him against a large boulder. We all heard the air being pushed out of him. SORRY! Good sport that he is, he didn't complain and got back into his kayak for more fun.

With a bit of encouragement from Jaime, we grew more comfortable with the rapids. Sonya and I went to the front to "block" the others from the big waves. We got totally drenched! What fun! After lunch on a beach, we set off again and played in some of the back flow. We paddled up into a "dip" in the rapid and the front of our boat got sucked into the water, filling with the cold clear river. Shawn and Tim got their turn getting wet.

Jaime allowed me to steer the boat down a small set of rapids. I was hopeless, always steering the wrong way. It showed me that our guide was quite an expert in manoeuvring our craft exactly where he wanted it.

Ian and Sonya took their turns in the kayaks. They both managed the rapids well and did not fall out. We arrived at the cliffs where we stopped to allow any fools who wished to jump to-well-jump. So being afraid of heights and a bit crazy, I was first up the cliffs. It was quite high. All I could feel was my heart pounding. I focused on the edge of the cliff and not the fall. One big step and I was met by the cold clear water. Whoeee! Experience #36-theme air/water- cliff jumping.

The day finished at Nimpkish lake, where our bus met us at an old dry-land sort. I think we all slept in that uncomfortable bus, tired from the days excitements. A great meal and a hot tub (with desert wine) finished us off, and we soon were all in dream land. Thanks to Mandy, Tim, Shawn, Chantelle, Sonya, Ian, and Simon for joining me on this wonderful week-end.

Experience #33

Theme: fine dinning: RV dinner

Simon and I were invited to dine in Dinah and Barry's 5th wheel trailer. It is in the front driveway of their beautiful home. They've been using it while doing reno's to their kitchen. Since I'm over the halfway mark on my experiences, I gladly accepted the offer to enjoy an entertaining evening where I wouldn't have to go too far out of my comfort zone.

Dinner was great. Barry made some terrific ribs and corn on the cob on the BBQ. Dinah added to the feast a delicious salad and a charcuterie platter. Generously pour wine, add good conversation about RVing and you have a very enjoyable evening.

I'm sure their neighbours thought we were a bit quirky but we had a ball. Go RVers!

Experience #34

Theme: social: Gay pride parade

I'm rarely home on the pride week-end. So this year, I made a point to participate. I feel that we, as a society, should be more inclusive. I have seen and heard hateful things done/said to gay and trans gender friends. Celebrating freedom of expression and identity is a powerful statement, that should be encouraged.

The weather was perfect and the downtown was filled with spectators and tourists. The floats were, as one might expect it, flamboyant. The last float had this amazing singer that worked the crowed like pie pipper. By the time we reached the James Bay park, there were thousands dancing and following her into the field. The band stand featured some local bands, and there was some kind of "talent show" by the baseball diamond. I was fun to see all the folks dressed up. Some had even dressed their dogs!

Experience #32

Theme water: Kayaking with the Orcas

What a weekend! Simon and I have been planning this one for a while. The level one kayak course we took in June was in preparation for this event. We purchased the charts and the tide books. We had our camping list printed weeks in advance so we wouldn't forget anything important such as the chocolate or wine. Our course was charted and we knew at what time the slack tide would be in the Haro Strait area.

We took the ferry from Sidney to Friday Harbour on Saturday June 30th. Friday Harbour is a quaint, hilly town. We were "car camping" which meant bringing anything we wanted, eating fresh foods,  drinking wine and eating cake. After shopping for necessities, we arrived at the camp site at 8pm. Camp was set up and the week end started by catching up with our good friends, who had joined us for the event. Our crew consisted of Roby (world kayaker), Grant (great guitarist), Jesse (cutest kid ever), Chris (birthday boy), Shira (supper athlete), Jeff (troubadour), Simon (best husband and man servant ever), and me (instigator of event).

Canada day, we had the best weather possible. It was sunny and calm. Our departure time was between 10 and 10:30. We kayaked out of Small Pox Bay by our campground and headed south with the ebbing tide. The water was mirror calm (0 on the Beaufort scale). It did not take long to see our first orcas. We were alone for a while listening to their breath and watching as they swam by. Once the whales were spotted though the tour boats showed up. With their loud motors and speakers blaring it altered the mood. Soon the boats "chased" the pod away and we were by ourselves again. More pods came by, but we needed to turn back before the current became too difficult for our paddle. The winds picked up and the swell increased and we had to work hard to get back to our little bay. I was glad to be in a double kayak with Simon. He kept me calm and focused to the task at hand.

The afternoon was spent playing bocce and snoozing in the sun. The evening meal was enjoyed beside our campfire. Simon spotted the fireworks in Victoria, off on the horizon, and the gang sang "Oh Canada". The guys played their guitars and we sang the night away. What a splendid way to end our day.

Thanks gang for sharing in my adventure!

Theme: Food and Wine

Experience #31: Wine tour

Yippee! Simon's new employer invited us to their annual retreat in Ossoyous. The boys got to play golf and the ladies enjoyed a morning at the spa...ah... But the best part was the afternoon of wine tours! I've never done one! I LOVE WINE!!!!!!
 You may sense that it wasn't hard to convince me to participate in this experience.
I learnt a bunch of stuff on wine making.
Did you know:

• Vines reach their maturity at about 3-5 years. The vine roots can dig deep (50 feet or more) into the poor arid soil to reach water.
• The winemakers may cull up to 50% of the grapes on the vines to encourage optimal sweetness in the remaining grapes.
• Most wineries hand pick the grapes and place them in a tank with an air-filled sac that squeezes the juice out gently. The grape juice is then fermented in vats of aluminium and then oak (young or old oak depending on the type of wine/grapes) until it reaches maturity. It is then bottled.
• An acre of grapes produces about 5 tones of grapes and makes 4,336 bottles of wine. One bottle of wine contains 2.3lbs of grapes.

Tasting the wine:

1. Tip the glass and look at the LEGS of the golden/ruby liquid.
2. Smell the NOSE. Your nose can distinguish thousands of flavors. Gently swirl the wine in the glass.
3. Taste. The tip of the tongue senses sweetness. The back, bitterness, and the sides detect acidity. Swirl the wine in your mouth blending it with some air bubbles.
4. Feel the wine on your tongue. Is it rich, full, lean, bubbly? Tannins feel dry.
5. Spit. The more you spit, the more you can sample without the risk of making a fool of yourself.
6. Cleanse with a couple of crackers, or water to make space for the next tasting.

The Okanagan is developing a reputation for its wineries. If you haven't visited this beautiful area I would recommend that you do. Thanks Quartech!

Theme: Social

Experience #29-30 Charitable donation

I am blessed. My life at the moment is great. I have the best husband, EVER! I love my career, my co-workers, and my clients. I have been guided by my financial adviser, Daniela, to put money aside for the future... Things are running smoothly. Simon and I have been giving to charities for many years. We chose a broad reaching, local foundations, that help families and individuals. This year we searched out other organisations and 2 rang true for me.

#29 Sponsoring a child though Plan Canada.
I chose to sponsor a little girl in Nepal. I am aware of the mistreatment of girls in many countries. My monthly contribution will go to provide her with adequate nutrition, water, sanitation, health care, education, and family income so her parents can support their children.

Founded in 1937, Plan Canada is one of the world’s oldest and largest charities, working to end global poverty. Inclusive of all faiths and cultures, Plan has only one purpose: to improve the lives of children.

#30 Silent auction fundraiser: We went to a e-women's network fundraiser for Bridges for women and Transition house. Chatting with all those professional women working on supporting their sisters who have experienced abuse, violence and neglect brought back to me my life "before Simon". It seems so far from my present reality, but I still feel some lingering effects from my own past, living with an abusive man. I was made to feel like second hand goods, worthless. If it wasn't for my mother and father  packing my possessions early one morning and literally putting me on that flight to Edmonton, Lord knows where I would be today. I have reached out to the women of Bridges and hope to be a mentor to someone working on re-creating herself. The fundraiser collected over $20,000 for both organisations. Bridges for women:

Bridges is a gutsy, innovative community agency. their employment training and supportive programs inspire women impacted by violence or abuse, to reclaim their lives and build economic security. Bridges draws on its extensive knowledge of the impacts of abuse on employability, to provide education, training and consulting to community agencies, employers, and government.
Every woman affected by violence or abuse will have the economic security to sustain herself and her family, in safety, health and freedom.

Transition House:

Regaining our lives, we regain self-respect.
Since 1975, several thousand women have come to their doors looking for help, seeking a brighter future for themselves and their children.Victoria Women’s Transition House Society has been there to provide a safe, welcoming shelter, respectful counselling, support and advocacy. A lot has changed in 35 years. But our purpose has stayed the same - to provide a helping hand and a safe place for women to envision a new future.

Experience #28: Wet exit

Theme: water

One of the challenges this year, coming up in July, will be to kayak with the orcas in the San Juan Islands. It may surprise some but I tend to be cautious. I know squat about kayaking. Soooo. We thought it best to take a level one course to at least know some strokes, and how to rescue ourselves.

The course was given by Ocean River Sports. Jeanette and Danika, our instructors were great. They were very enthusiastic and friendly, but were also good instructors and gave us really good basic skills. The course curriculum moved us from novices to beginner level boaters. Perfect for our planned trtip.

The wet exit was interesting. What if you capsize you kayak? The spray skirt holds you in the cockpit. (Notice I use terminology-nice eh?) Well the skirt has a loop at the bow end that sticks out from the cockpit combing. (stop it with all this terminology!) So one simply slides ones hand along the cockpit opening toward the front and one reaches the loop. Simply pull forward and up to release the skirt and kick out of the up-turned boat. Don't forget to hold onto you paddle (not oar). Now you're wet. and your boat has water in it... If your buddy is near by he/she can stabilise your boat while you spawn (climbing terminology-but appropriate description) up and back into your kayak. Or you can use a floater attached to your paddle and climb back in on your own. Very cool! The aim is of course NOT having to do this rescue in the first place, but it is nice to know how. Hopefully, one can "edge" (lean to one side) the boat and "brace" with the paddle (using the back of the paddle as a stabiliser) to re-adjust the level of the kayak and avoid capsizing. I think we're ready for the long week-end!

Themes: music and protest

Experiences #26 &27 Sing a solo, protest

   When I started the year, I thought of what challenges I would like to tackle. Singing an official solo was a biggie. Before I chickened out, I sent an e-mail to Jack, my choir director. I was thinking a one sentence solo as part of one of the songs we would present at a concert. This is the typical solo with the Arbutus singers. Well, Jack is this supper generous guy, sooooo he offered me a full solo with the song of my choice! Yikes! I had nightmares for about a week. Then came the task of finding which song to pick. Simon suggested Kate Bush-I love her music. We chose Army Dreamer. It is a beautiful, and short song. So for the next month I sang that song over and over. I was obsessed!
   My first attempt singing it with the men-my backup- was not so good. I was so scared I could hardly breathe let alone sing. Oddly enough the other "new experiences" such as the roller coaster and the day wearing an abaya stripped away some of my fears. I had 5 more opportunities to practise with the men. By the time the concert came this past week-end, I felt prepared and well, calm!
   I feel it went very well and I am satisfied with my performances. Two of them, in front of more than 400 people each time at the First Metropolitan Church.
   I am very thankful to Jack, Sylvia and Irene my directors, the men of Arbutus singers who looked upon me with such love and encouragement, and all the folks that came to see my performances. A special thanks to Simon who kept on saying that I could do it. How did he know?!

   My sister-in-law, Martine, challenged me to protest something. This song is my protest; it bemoans the loss of life during war. Such a waste.

Theme Romance:

Experience #22 Kiss in 50 different places. #23 say I LOVE YOU in 50 different languages:

Mandy recommended the romance theme. Thanks, it's been most enjoyable! Simon and I have been together now for 27 years- married 26 years. Yikes! When you say it, it seems like a loooong time. But funny enough we both feel like we're still just at the beginning of our lives together. I appreciate his willingness to play and recreate himself along our journey. Also I do know how fortunate I am to have such a support/chauffeur/confidant/man servant. So showing my love and appreciation is easy. We've already kissed in more than 50 places. So we are aiming for 150 places. It can't hurt!

As for the professing of my love, well pronunciation aside, that's easy as well. My favourites:
Te quiero (Spanish)
ich liebe disch (German)
jeg ebker dig (Danish)
mahal kita (Filipino)

Theme environment:

Experiences #24 No car for a month. #25 No take away trash for 3 months:

These challenges come from Kelly, an environmental client of mine. They are not difficult to perform; they simply require some forethought and planning. As we live and work downtown, not using the car was mostly easy. The errands farther afield were done on week-ends as part of our "long walk training". It allowed us to see our city from a different point of view.

The no trash challenge took a bit more planning. One must be prepared! Have on your person: cutlery, napkin/handkerchief, baggies, travel mug, Tupperware and cloth grocery bags. If you don't have these items then you have to sit and have your coffee/lunch at the shop; or purchase those items latter. Shop keepers are going to offer "to go" packaging DON'T USE IT. I did not see much resistance to using my own baggies for muffins or my Tupperware for take-out foods in Victoria. In Vegas it was very hard to do this challenge. There is no recycling in hotels, coffee shops do NOT want to use my baggies (concerns about contamination?) and insist on giving you coffee in a paper cup-even when you want to sit in their shop. I like this challenge and will endeavour to keep going with this new habit.

Experience #21
Theme: water/ scuba diving

Woohoo! What a thrill! Simon and I have been snorkeling for many years and thought about scuba diving but never took the time to learn. So as part of the 50 new experiences-why not?

Kellen was an enthusiastic instructor, and very good communicator under water. He maintained his cool and had patience with us as we fumbled through the "firsts" of this course.

For those who haven't done it and are apprehensive, the course is gradual and brings you confidence as you succeed with the required skills in progression from simple to more complex. First thing-put gear on at the pool's shallow end and bend over to take your first breath under water. No problem. Now kneel down in the shallow end and breathe. Fill your mask half way with water and clear it. Into the deep end we go! We spent 2- two hour sessions at the pool getting acquainted with the equipment and performing various drills. Saturday, we did 2 open water dives repeating all the same skills in the cold ocean, wearing a full wetsuit. Some moments of nervousness were experienced by all, but we all managed well. Sunday, we did 2 more dives to deeper levels and stayed longer underwater.

Some of you would be amazed at the wild life we have on our coast line. The water is cold but the wetsuit holds your body heat quite well. There's a lot of gear to don. Simon and I had about 65lbs of gear on. I found walking and stepping up onto the break-water quite challenging, but Simon and Kellen were gentlemen and helped me out.

Lessons learnt with this new skill-stay calm. Take the few seconds to get your bearings and choose the right course of actions. Ask your buddy for help if needed. Oh and don't forget to breathe!

Experience #20
Theme: social awareness: living in a Muslim abaya for a day

My friends, Garth and Holly, have been working in Saudi for about 3 years. They suggested this challenge to me- Why don't you dress like a Muslim for a day? This experience took me farther than I originally thought it would. My aim was not to wear a disguise and walk around creating havoc. I wanted to live as a conservative woman of Islam to feel what she may experience living is such a western culture.

My first step was to read up on Islamic faith and practises. I realised I knew nothing about them. The Qur'an states that both men and women are equal but different. Men have a public life where they are charged with maintaining and providing/protecting their family and their wives. Women live a more private life. The Sharia (Islamic law) provides complimentarianism, differences between the sexes. Neither the Qur'an or Hadith mention women having to be housewives. The majority of Muslim countries give women a varying degree of rights with regards to marriage, divorce, civil rights, legal status, dress code and education based on different interpretations of Islamic doctrine.

5 pillars of faith:
These "pillars" are to be followed by the faithful as a guide to living a full life. I took note of these and tried to find a way to incorporate many of them during my day. Some I had to make time for, others actually happened naturally as I transformed into this woman.

Let's start at the beginning. My bird got me up at 5am. Time for prayer. I'm not religious so I use this time for quite contemplation/meditation. I got dressed in my borrowed Abaya (black manteau/coat, hijab/scarf over hair and nipaab face veil). At first I felt a bit claustrophobic, but got used to the confined feeling and feeling some freedom as none of my looks mattered. As I steeped out of the apartment I became aware of my man radar. A Muslim woman would try to avoid close contact with men not related to her. She can do business with a man, as long as no physical contact is made and that conversation remains civil and respectful. So as I made my way to my coffee date, I became aware of the obstacle course men made for me on the streets.

All service that day: coffee shop, grocery store, restaurant, shop clerk were all normal and respectful, as though I was Julie C. Men glanced as they passed by out of curiosity, but I felt they were less interested in me than if I was my Canadian self. The women were different. Their looks included pity, disgust and even anger. Their stare felt cold and judgemental making me feel even more isolated.

My physical demeanour changed. My steps had to be smaller due to the long coat, my pace slower as I lacked the fresh air. But the dress made me aware that this woman would be modest not only in dress but in actions. Sit up right, knees together, softer voice.

Testimony: pillar #2-I did this without knowing. My 2 Friends who joined me for meals both were at first disturbed by their feeling toward this "Muslim woman". I felt her speaking through me stating that she did this not out of oppression but out of her respect for her God and her husband. That her beauty was a cherished gift she kept private for them.

Fasting: pillar #3- Eating is HARD with the niqaab. I could drink OK by lifting the veil and tipping to cup to my lips. But food-I could not see the fork and aim it at my mouth so a lot of my salad ended up on my lap.

Alms giving: pillar #4- I looked at the beggars differently. I felt ignored and isolated and could see that they too were treated this way. I bowed discreetly to them and offered the greeting "peace be with you"/ as salamu alakum.

Pilgrimage: pillar #5-this whole day was my pilgrimage. It transformed my view of myself and of the other women of the world. We are often treated differently by society; judged for what we say, do, wear. We are somehow at fault for bad things that may happen to us. But I realised, we are our worst enemy. Instead of supporting one another we ofter judge more harshly then the men do. Food for thought.
As salamu alakum

Experiences #17-18-19
Theme "the computer"
#17- create a blog:
Well I'm well under way with this one. Starting the blog was simple enough. Goggle has blogspot that offers various styles to choose from. I chose the flying birds of course. I chose a blog as opposed to a face book page as this needs no invitations and memberships to check in. What I put up is open to anyone who wishes to find it. I will continue reporting on my events 'till the end of the year.

#18-e-learning:
As part of learning to scuba-dive, I am expected to learn on line about the theories related to atmospheric pressures, gas, and the affects on the human body. I am most impressed with the planning it takes to create such a site. The learning sessions incorporate videos, written materials, schematics, and printable charts and tables. All went well until I got stuck on a test question, that I could not find a solution for. Now I have to call a rep from the dive store to help me out. I guess e-learning has it's limitations...

#19- research:
I don't do computer work. I am a novice at best. But I know I cannot avoid this creature as it is infiltrating even my massage practise. So with all the events planned for this year, many come from exploring the web. Finding information, booking on-line, getting permits, printing off maps, finding the score for my solo, even getting ideas for the "bucket list", I am getting more comfortable with using the blasted beast and maybe we can come to respect one another.

Events #14, 15, 16   Vegas Theme

March was a crazy month, so I didn't do much in the new experiences category. But for April, I had a few planned events. The 15th was our 26th wedding anniversary, and so we planned a Vegas trip. While we were there Simon helped me by organising some requested events.

#14: aerial scream
I don't like moving fast. I also don't like spinning. So the obvious event to face these fears would be ridding a roller coaster. The one in question is at Circus Circus Adventure theme park. It has 2 loops and a corkscrew, a cave, and a significant drop. After a magnificent day of walking in the desert, Simon takes me to the theme park "to have a look". But before I can object, the tickets are purchased and we are next in line. Glasses off, check, pockets empty, check. We are braced in by these large bars that cover shoulders and hips. I feel snug and well braced. I know I'm in trouble when I scream at the very first little dip in the track. We climb up slowly, this is OK.....EEEEEEEE. So I admit as soon as the car begins to drop it is too much; I want to stop; I'm going to die; surely this is safe!?! I close my eyes and scream for the whole 90 seconds which, by the way, felt much, much longer. Simon's poor ears suffered my high pitched squeals. |Through my own yelling, I could hear him say things like "oh my g..! oh no!" The car comes to a stop, we feebly climbed out and I shook and trembled for a good hour post event. Did I enjoy it? No. Will I do it again? No thank you.

#15: Aerial scream/2
I think Simon recommended this one, probably because he wanted to try it himself. In door skydiving is a blast! Levi, our instructor and coach, gave us a short instruction on gear, signing communications, and body positions when in flight. We waited our turn in the viewing room and saw another group fly. Our turn! The room is padded; the floor is mesh with a large wind turbine underneath that blows air upward. The turbine is operated by this guy in another room connected to the flight room by a window. Levi would signal various commands and fine-tune the amount of air being pushed out. I was up first. Arms and legs in an X, head up, back arched... The effect of all that force against my body was amazing. I was up four feet of the ground in no time! Levi threw me up and spun me like I was a rag doll. The turbine was reduced and I came down into Levi's arms and he gently pushed me off to the side. Thumbs up! To let him know I was OK, and it was Simon's turn. He did great, and looked very pleased with his first flight. We were six in the room and each had three flights. This experience was pure exhilaration without any fear. I would do it again!

#16: I don't call 911

This one was for the Bart's gang. Years ago they did a Boys Vegas trip. They all went to a firing range and shot guns. Simon looked around and found a reputable indoor range. They had a "ladies package" $50 for 20 shots on a Glock 19, 10 shots with a Beretta CX4, two targets (a crazy clown, and a basic target) and a T-shirt. My instructor, Jeff, gave me the "low down" on how to hold the guns, the correct stance and aiming techniques. That first shot was a surprise. The power that the gun exerted! But I felt Jeff's hand on my shoulder and kept on shooting. The Glock was a fine handgun, but I liked the Beretta the most. I was able to aim more accurately and felt more in control. My T-shirt? It says that I don't call 911! So don't mess with me boys!

Unplanned event #13
Question: What occurs during the late 40's?
Yes, all of you ladies can chuckle, I'm having hot flashes! It started a few weeks ago. I woke up around one Am feeling like I couldn't breathe and sweating profusely. I eventually cooled off and fell asleep only to wake up an hour later feeling hot again. Simon reached out to me in the night (still asleep) and woke up saying "What the h--- is that?!" It was, of course, my belly covered in sweat-nice.
The same thing happened the next night, and the next....
What was I eating? Was I getting sick? Ah, it finally dawned one me! Damn!
Well I'm not going to let it beat me! I need my sleep or else I become a bit grumpy and weepy-not a good combination...
So, I started cleaning up my diet: less caffeine, no more wine-for a while.
My herbalist friend, Jackie C, suggested oil of evening primrose, omegas, folic acid. A nurse friend, Joan F, suggested having a bit of iodine salt as it gets used up during this period in ones life. My acupuncturist, Linda Z, worked on some hormone points on my ears (ouch!) and gave me some Chinese herbs "to cool my chi".
Well, I feel much better, I am experiencing moments of warmth-not burning sweaty heat- and I am waking up only twice a night. Not bad, I can live with this. So for a while I have conquered my hormones. I know it is a temporary win, but, hey, a win is a win...
Until next time, here is a picture of my two men.

Event #12

Theme: nature: attending a birth
Last night I was invited to attend the birth of lambs. My good friends, Brian and Celeste, own a sheep farm. At this time of year they are a bit sleep deprived as lambing season is in and counting sheep means a totally different thing.

So we, Simon and I, were invited to dinner and a birth. In between bites of dinner we kept a close eye on the ewe in question. She had started to isolate herself from the herd and scratch at the ground. She seemed restless and kept exhibiting labour contractions. We went out when she finally laid down and  had a closer look. Her water had broken and there were signs of the placenta starting to come out. The first lamb out was all black. Her sister came out shortly after and had a black head and white body. Labour took about 2-3 hours. Each lamb had its own afterbirth. This will be eaten by eagles or other predators.
Gestation in the ewe takes about 140-150 days. The ram comes for a "visit" and inseminates the ewes in October/November. He seems happy, but tired after his stay at Collie Acres farm. Lambs are born in March and April. Most ewes will have twins. On a rare occasion, they give birth to triplets.

The lambs usually come out with front feet first, then the head. Once the shoulders have passed the rest of the body quickly follows. Mother licks the lambs clean of the bag and stimulates them by nudging and calling to them. In this way they bond, and the lambs will be able to recognise her call from all other ewes in the herd. Next comes the challenging task of getting the lamb to stand and feed. Once this has occurred we know the lamb can fend for him/herself.
Brian takes the lambs and gets the ewe to follow him into a shelter where mom and babies will stay for a few days. It is out of the wind, and allows the bonding process to go on without interruptions. Mom gets grain and alfalfa and concentrates on her young. The little lambs get to practise standing and walking and finding their way to mom's teats. A happy lamb, wags his/her tail vigorously.
These lambs will have a good year. This farm is a free run organic farm that allows the sheep to roam free and enjoy life. At the end of their first year the lambs will be slaughtered. But for now we can enjoy watching them grow and run with all their new friends.

Events #11
Social theme: No complaints for 30 days!
Now this was a challenge. The concept comes from Maya Angelou who encourages us to be more positive and affect the world by this "simple act". The task is not to complain about those trivial things we tend to focus on such: as that guy driving in front of us, the teller at the store, or a work colleague, or a family member that behaves differently from us. I strived this month to be less critical of myself and others and to be more patient.
I was challenged with this one. Not that I have a lot to complain about-I love what I do for a living, my marriage is great, I am fortunate to have good friends and neighbours. But I do tend to be frustrated when things don't go as I planned. Did I make it through the month without a slip up? No. But it did slow down my habit of having fits of frustration over small things in my day.

I will endeavour to continue this habit. It is very powerful and has made me look at how I view others and myself differently.
I recommend this challenge to all of you.

I have no picture for this challenge, so here is Tiki with his buddy Miki- Miki never complains about the indignities...

Event #7-10
Spa theme:
To continue on with the spa theme this week, I got my hair dyed, got a proffesional make-up application, wore false eyelashes and got a photo shoot.

On Saturday morning I had my hair appointment with Rosie at Crescedo hair salon. I like Rosie. She has good energy and she knows her stuff. In a previous consult regarding the hair colour, she recommended I try a semi-permanent colour that would gradually wash out over the next few months. There was a general concensus that I should be conservative in my choice of colour with a bit of "punch". So we chose a dark brown colour with highlights of purple. Sounds outlandish, but it actually turned out perfect. If you saw me walking down the street, all you'd notice is a dark head of hair, but as I got closer, the light would catch the highlights and whamo! It's purple!

Next up, I had an appointment with Jordan at Echochic Salon for my make-up. Whew! Lots of foundation and four layers of lipstick. My eyes kept trearing up. They did not like the make-up brush, mascara, and all the fussing around. Jordan kept wipping the tears and re-applying more foundation and shmootz to my face. He applied my false eyelashes and voila! The make-up was well done, the eyes smokey, and the lip colour natural. I was ready for the shoot.

Tina G, a friend in photo journalism school, generously offered to do a photo shoot for me at her school's studio. She did an awesome job. At first I felt self-conscious, not knowing how to pose. But she encouraged me and slowly it felt more natural. We took shots in a few outfits, some boudoir shots-those are for private use only-sorry- and fancy dress shots. Simon came in at the end and we got a few with the two of us together. I realise how difficult it must be for models to change their expression and keep the poses fresh for each shoot. It is a lot harder than it looks.

All dressed up and some place to go! My sweet man got opera tickets for Saturday night. Why waste all that work! I felt very glamorous that evening. The opera, Carmen, was spectacular. It is one I know well and I restrained myself from singing along. I was bushed that night but mindful of my transformation. I didn't realise how much effort being girly took.

Event #4-6
Spa theme-aaahhhh
Well, I'm hooked! My girly friends recommended I try a facial and pedicure. This sounded very wise so I booked myself at Fingers and Toes in James Bay for Saturday morning grooming.

 I've never done a wax so I threw that in as well. For those who are wax virgins such as I was, its not that bad. The secret is baby powder on the legs prior to the hot wax, and of course a smooth and brisk pull of the hair removal cloth. To me, it felt no more painful than pulling off a bandage. Once the waxing is complete they spend a few minutes plucking any stray little hairs with tweezers. What attention to detail! I opted out of waxing in the bikini area. After many consults with aficionados of that type of waxing...painful and well...yuck!

Onto the facial. Nicole had very skilled hands, ever so gentle. She recommends that this procedure be dome regularly (every few months). The facial starts with a warm towel and a wash to cleanse the skin. Next she goes over my face with what looks like a dremmel bit, exfoliating the surface layers of skin and removing any blemishes. More warm towels applied, a moisturising peal-off mask and finally cream. I almost fell asleep.

The piece de resistance was the pedi. A shiatsu chair, hot soak for the tootsies...nice. The young lady doing my pedi was Melanie. She was an ex-WCCMT student! Apparently she was a student at the massage college when I was a senior there myself. It such a small world. While we were chatting about our old Alma Mater, Melanie buffed my rough toes and feet, gave me a very nice foot massage and applied the "I'm not a waitress" colour of nail polish onto my toe nails. The secret is layering. A clear coat protects the nails from the deep red colour (it may stain the nails), two coats of the chosen colour, and two more coats of clear to protect the polish from chipping off.

For the men out there remember this as a great gift for your girl. After a morning at the spa, she will be relaxed, feeling good about her feet and well who knows what could happen?

Event #3
Water theme: the Yeti race!

The Yeti race was started about 11 years ago-probably by some crazy yahoo who wanted to run with mukluks on, or something of the sort. It has become a popular event for the fiercely competitive and a few folks ready to tackle something new and a bit foolish. Sound like someone you know? The event is divided into the Sport-5 km and the Enduro 10km.

This challenge was provided by Mandy-a runner-say no more. Thanks Mandy! I don't run; I've never been in an organised event like this so why not give it a go? Simon joined me in this endeavour.

Mount Washington has gotten quite a bit of new snow in the past few weeks, and on Saturday the 28th of January it was minus 8 Celsius and blowing; but the 120 competitors were all ready for it. Even the Yeti man was in good spirits.

We chose a strategic spot to start the race-at the back of the pack- and ran for about 2 minutes out of the gates. We kept up with the non-runner's pack for most of the way. The terrain was hilly from the start. About half way, we met THE HILL. It was not too steep but it seemed to never end! Simon and I were behind a girl dressed as Elvis for the long hill. Simon passed her half way and I tried to follow but my legs felt like lead and I was sucked back behind the Elvis girl and stayed there for the rest of the race.

The track was just wide enough for our snow shoes and in some spots it was knee deep. I tried to jog on the flat spots but could not manage more than a few minutes at a time. The real athletes lapped us-twice! OK so they were very slender, obviously fit, wore runners (no socks) and very small snow shoes. Simon and I were dressed for an outback trek with our heavy boots, day packs. I even had my full first aid kit and extra clothes in my pack. Note to self, if we ever do this again-rent small snow shoes and don't Carry extra gear. It's only 5km!

 So winning time for the 10km was 38 minutes. Simon came in the top 100 (he was 99) at 61 minutes for the 5km. I was 109th with 64 minutes. I think I left part of a lung there on the track...

Events #1 and #2

#1-Water theme: Polar bear swim!


Jan 1st, perfect time to start my 50 new experiences. People that know me can tell you that I have been in some cold water, but I have never done a polar bear swim.

I recruited my friends, Holly and Jack, and into Buckley Bay we went. The water was shallow and it took a while for the water level to be deep enough for the dunk. The day was misty and cool, and the water pretty $&#^?/**! cold.

Jack is a very brave dude and never walks away from a challenge; he did a full body and head dunk! Luckily, our rented "villa" was on the beach so a hot shower awaited us as soon as we were out.


#2-Edible theme: Raw oysters!

Yes, I know. I'm a foodie and I like oysters-cooked or smoked-but I have never eaten them raw. It goes back to my childhood...

My Dad would bring these giant things home from La Pointe (fish market in Ottawa) and SLURP them! Such noise! I could never bring myself to try them-too revolting.

But I'm a grown woman. I have hiked the GR20 in Corsica, I can face a few oysters.

On Friday January 6th, with my friends, Celeste and Brian, I ate some oysters. The first with tabasco, the second with lemon, and the third with horse radish. Lemon was best. It tasted like the ocean, salty and delicate. I'll eat them again-but I still prefer chocolate.

Welcome to my Blogg

Welcome to my Blogg!
On December 31st, 2011, my friends and I were celebrating the eve of the New Year and my 49th birthday. I was enquiring about New Year's resolutions. It has been my habit to try something new every year. What could I attempt this coming year?

How to best commemorate my half century? Why not try 50 new things? The challenge was set. Since then, I've been thinking about my year. Being a list maker, I started by using my skills to create a plan.

1. Create a list of categories: social, musical, political, intellectual, spiritual, romantic, physical, environmental and edible (rhymes with the others), earth, wind, and water
2. Set dates for seasonal events and guided activities
3. Find as many free, or low cost options
4. Research local events and attractions
5. Book early to avoid becoming a big chicken!
6. Enlist friends to join in the fun and/or to support my endeavours

DONE!

I have 50 new experiences on my list and my calendar is roughed in. Please join me this year and see how I do. I'll report regularly and put up some photo's; and together we can have a good laugh (I hope!).

Here we go!

Julie C